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.And finally, she is going to have to use her charms to seduce you away fromall these other activities - and girls just love a challenge.In practice, always talk about times when you're busy BEFORE you talk abouttimes when you're available (when you call her, leave voice-mail or email herto arrange a get-together).And BTW, don't sweat about how many days should I wait before callingher? - Just call or email her the next day after first meeting her.Here are a few good examples to go by when suggesting a get-together: Hi! Well I don't have much time to talk/write right now, but let s see& I'mgonna be busy today and tomorrow, hmm, ok let's get together on Thursdayfor a cup of tea and some conversation. Don't linger any longer than you absolutely have to.Another example: 'I'd like to get together with you sometime.Let's see, I mbusy tomorrow morning and the next day, I'm out of town on the weekend,but I think I could squeeze for some free time tomorrow at 4 PM. All of this suggests scarcity, that you're in control and you're the one makingthe decisions, and also that you have a very busy life, so the selectiveavailability that you do offer screams 'Before its too late, take it, NOW!' tothe woman.Technique 20 - The theory of arranging a get-together with a womanYou have a woman s number.Now you want to ask her for a date.STOP!Before you do anything stupid, read this tip.When arranging for a first get-together, aim for something simple and easy.Something that doesn't need a big commitment in terms of money or time.Something that allows you to get to know each other a bit better in arelatively short amount of time.The no-no's First of all, never say Can I take you out sometime? or 'Will you go out withme?' - these imply you're gonna pay for all her expenses for the time the twoof you are together.Page 227Copyright © 2006, Simon Heong -- All Rights Reserved.www.InstantAttractionProgram.com Instant Attraction ProgramAnd I won't even mention the horrible Can I buy you dinner sometime? or Can I take out on a date? here.Yes, it is a good chance to make conversation, but any sort of a restaurantscenario locks you into the situation for at least an hour or two, so if sheturns out to be brain-dead or psycho, you'll have a hard time escaping.Plus who's gonna be paying?Any scenario with money is overtly involved is a hazard.So you decide to putup your best display and woo her with a $200 dinner.Then in turns out to befrom a wealthy family or successful herself and she doesn't even notice yourefforts - and you just blew your whole weeks pay!Or worse, you may decide to buy such a woman a meal at MacDonald s.Imean it is OK to stop by at a McDonald's if you're feeling hungry, but anysituation in which you think you're buying her something, whether cheap orexpensive, has so much more potential for disaster than success than it isjust not worth it.Save the gifts for later, when you're already been going out for a while, knoweach other better and when you can actually give them as a reward forhaving been so good to you and to make her feel happy in return.Anything that looks like you're trying to bribe her (the restaurant) and lockher into a situation where she can't easily get out of (the movies) has thepotential of blowing up in your face.She may accept your bribe, eat her stomach's full of caviar in the restaurantand then suddenly discover her girlfriend or grandmother has someunexpected emergency and that she has to run.Or she may simply say Nope to your suggestions of getting together and then that's that.But do say let's get together sometime - this implies you'd like to see her inthe future and maybe do something fun together, but nowhere here do yousuggest that you'd be willing to bribe her or that you'd be willing to pave herway with money in order to just be with her.If you wish, you can say 'Let's have a cup of tea' - a cup of tea is such aninsignificant expense, that it will remain just a gesture of goodwill and it willnever seem like an attempt to bribe her, so if she agrees, it will be becauseshe'd genuinely want to spend time with you.So how about the classic Let's go to the movies ?Oh no-no-no.Page 228Copyright © 2006, Simon Heong -- All Rights Reserved.www.InstantAttractionProgram.com Instant Attraction ProgramNO!Even if you think it will be a turn-on for you to sit for two hours in a darkroom next to a good-looking lady
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